I thought I might discuss the recent turnover of Proposition 8 in California since I was one of the participators and promoters of the proposition. I'm from San Diego, California and though I don't remember the exact wording of the letter, I distinctly remember when our Stake President read a letter encouraging us to support Proposition 8 from the First Presidency. I was initially surprised that the leaders of the Church were speaking out on a political issue, and I admit I was eager to join the united forces of my ward and stake to support them. On the other hand, I knew several members of our ward alone disagreed with the proposition and would not participate.
While this divide did not cause undue contention, that I was aware of, it was a source of conflict.
But the true opposition came from neighbors, friends at school, even my high school teachers. I had to know exactly what I was supporting and fighting for: to protect the sanctity of the family. I've always had a strong testimony of this most sacred part of the gospel plan, and I was sure that something so sacred as marriage must be a religious and not a political issue. Yes, I'm well aware of things like tax breaks and other benefits of marriage for homosexual couples, but then why not extend those benefits to civil unions and leave marriage where it belongs? In the hands of religious leaders. We were never hostile in our roadside protests, or on the day we wore the t-shirts to school. But the whispers and offensive language and great hostility thrown at us were enough to confirm my decision.
Now, most of this hostility centered around the sensitive issue of discrimination. Contrary to popular belief, I do
not support the Mormon culture distaste and discriminatory attitude towards homosexuals. My favorite supervisor and good friend at the grocery store I worked at was, in fact, homosexual. And I absolutely loved the guy, nor did I judge him for his sexual orientation and decisions regarding it. I only sought to stand up for my own religious beliefs and ensure the freedom of religion by separation of church and state. Our intent was never to separate or discriminate or control homosexuals. They are children of God and I've always treated them accordingly. So, be careful before assigning the heavy terms of discrimination or bigotry to Proposition 8 supporters.